Got “Marketing Paralysis”? Try This…

Many of us put off creating or overhauling our marketing
materials until we have “time.” But with all the
responsibilities we have, who on earth has time? In my experience,
the time excuse is very often a smokescreen, covering the fears
hidden underneath.

And what of these fears? Well let’s face it. When you’re selling
yourself, there’s something scary about putting yourself “out
there” and putting yourself “out there” in a tangible real piece
of marketing, does seem to make it somewhat final. We worry
about being misunderstood.

We worry about not living up to other people’s expectations. We
worry about “getting it wrong”. We worry about offending people.
We worry about appearing over confident. We worry about making
claims that we can’t live up to. It’s no wonder we can’t find
the time. Who would want to find the time to when there are so
many ways of getting it wrong?

In spite of the fact that those fears exist and they’re getting
in the way, we really just have to thumb our noses at them. You
simply have to say to yourself, “Yes, those fears may be there,
but I’m going to create my marketing materials in spite of them.”

My favourite method for blasting through these fears is a
technique I call the “anti-brochure”. Before we go any further I
want you to grab a pen, and a sheet of paper and at the top
write, “The reasons you SHOULDN’T become my client”. Now as
quickly as possible, write down all the reasons why someone
shouldn’t hire you.

Don’t worry, we won’t be publicizing these, what we are aiming
to do is to get these sentences out of your head where they can
cripple your creative process and onto the page where they lose
a great deal of their power.

Here are some examples that have come out of this exercise:

“I’m not good enough.”

“I tell a good story, but I don’t walk my talk.”

“If I’m so great why is my own life in such a mess?”

“If people knew what I was really like they wouldn’t want to
hire me.”

“I’m afraid I won’t live up to their expectations.”

“The only reason I have any clients is because I fooled them
all.”

I love this technique for blasting away the doubts and fears
that will otherwise really interfere with your creative process.
Once you’ve got the words out and onto the page, they become a
lot less effective at holding you back. Last year I ran a course
with a partner, and we sat down and did this exercise together
before writing the brochure.

We titled it, “The reasons you shouldn’t book onto this course”.
We each spent 5-10 minutes filling a sheet with our insecurities
and fears and when we were done, we compared notes, then threw
the lists away. That’s it. That’s all you need to do. Don’t
agonize over what you’ve written. Just write it, read it through
and throw it away.

Some people like a ritual burning, but to be perfectly honest I
think that’s affording too much significance to what just
amounts to a bunch of false fears. Just screw up the paper and
toss it in the wastepaper basket. Try this. It really works.

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December 1st, 2008